Couples must adjust when the wife is the breadwinner

After a long, hard day at work, Katherine Murray arrives home to a martini and newspaper by her easy chair. Dinner is bubbling on the stove.

The house is sparkling, laundry is folded and grocery shopping is complete.

"It's like the 1950s in reverse," said Murray, 51.

Reverse because it's Murray who pulls in a plump $90,000 salary in her gig with the federal government.

Her husband, Mike Mills? Around $6,000, waiting tables 15 hours a week.

Breadwinner, she is.

Emasculated, he's not.